Neighbors should be treated kindly, without even making a type of insult. When we turn away from a person or insult him, then a stone falls on our heart.
St. Seraphim of Sarov
And one stone mounts atop the previous one. And the one after continues to build such an edifice. One after another until we can no longer carry the weight of our pride, malace and hubris. Then what shall we do my friends? Then, perhaps, we will lie down to die.